Seeking lady soulmate preferably in Bali

 Hi I am here, single again , dear professional and business lady entrepreneurs who are seeking life partners, i am a man , professional translator and mobile English and Indonesian tutor. For those life partner seeking women aged ranging from 30 - 40 years of age either single or widow, who wish to get to know me, may contact me on 081999937656 @translatorbali preferably in Bali . Thanks and God bless you.

Salam kenal kepada para wanita profesional dan wiraswatawati yang sedang mencari PH, sy pria berdomisili di denpasar, seorang pria 45 thn profesional translator dan mobile English and Indonesian tutor . Bagi wanita berumur 30 - 40 thn jomblo single atau janda yang serius ingin kenal bisa menghubungi saya di 081999937656 @translatorbali  .PS diutamakan di daerah bali  terima kasih . God bless you 

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 Lust versus Love

Lust is about satisfaction. Love is about sacrificing, serving, surrendering, sharing, supporting, and even suffering for others.

Love is an emotion of a strong affection and personal attachment. Love is also a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection --"the unselfish loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another". Love may also be described as actions towards others or oneself based on compassion, or as actions towards others based on affection.
Lust is an emotion or feeling of intense desire in the body. The lust can take any form such as the lust for knowledge, the lust for sex or the lust for power. It can take such mundane forms as the lust for food as distinct from the need for food. Lust is a powerful psychic force producing intense wanting for an object, or circumstance fulfilling the emotion.

SIGNS OF LOVE

    You want to spend quality time together other than sex.
    You get lost in conversations and forget about the hours passing.
    You want to honestly listen to each other's feelings, make each other happy.
    He or she motivates you to be a better person.
    You want to get to meet his or her family and friends.

SIGNS OF LUST

    You're totally focused on a person's looks and body.     You're interested in having sex, but not in having conversations     You'd rather keep the relationship on a fantasy level,not discuss real feelings.
    You want to leave soon after sex rather than cuddling or breakfast the next morning.
    You are lovers, but not friends.

WHAT IS LOVE?
"To experience the pure essence of unconditional love is our basic purpose for coming to earth," writes Marianne Williamson in A Return to Love. "We experience it as kindness, giving, compassion, peace,joy, acceptance, non-judgment, joining, intimacy."Love is not neediness. "I love you because I need you!" -- WRONG! "I need you because I love you!" -- RIGHT!
Why is love so hard to find? It's simple:
1) we do not love ourselves; and
2) we have not healed the wounds of past love relationships.
3.Some of us have a poor image of our biological father's love, they detest him . the persons we get involved with may tend to objectify us because of the unresolved hatred towards their father- children relationship .
 
Astrology can reveal the qualities each person has for loving himself
or herself and for giving love to another. Further study, especially
of Venus, Sun and Moon, in the charts of two people shows how easily
they can love each other.

WHAT IS LUST?
Lust is chemistry. It is felt almost immediately when two people meet. It usually involves flirting, touching. Something inside you goes, "lusty" Lust involves the body. A real deterrent to pure love is seeing ourselves only as bodies; when in reality, we are not our bodies...we are a spiritual soul inside a physical body. Good love will involve good sex. Good sex alone rarely involves real pure love. The danger with lust is that men and women react to it differently. Women "fall in love" with a good lustful encounter, men do not. Men "fall in love" by doing for their woman.
In Astrology compatibility, studying the aspects involving Mars and pluto indicates lust. 

Determining whether or not our relationship is built on love or lust can challenge even the most socially-savvy amongst us. If this is an issue in our relationship, take this love quiz to find out where you stand

Let's take this test to find out if we are really in love with that special someone, or just madly infatuated or in lust with them!

Quiz on Love, Lust, or Infatuation

                        Valuable tips to move forward with your life

We put limitations on ourselves everyday, whether intentionally or unintentionally. There are so many ways we can alleviate these restraints.

Remember, life can either be something you embrace or something you hide from. Stop making things complicated and just live your life. It would be so much simpler and more enjoyable if we learned to just release certain limitations.

Thoughts Of Your Ex

This person is your ex for a reason. If you are going to think of him or her at all, try and think only about the lessons the experience taught you. Do not linger on any old feelings, as this will only prevent you from being happy with someone else in the future.

Stubbornness

I know it’s hard to admit, but sometimes you are just wrong. Other people have just as much capability as you do in providing the correct answer, so stop being stubborn and just embrace it. The less stubborn you act, the more open you are to learning new things. Think of all you could be exposed to if you stopped believing in other people's opinions other than your own.

 Procrastination

Stop thinking you will finally get to whatever task is at hand tomorrow. Live in the present, and get your sh*t done when it needs to be done. Maximize your time to the best of your ability. Complete each task you need to as soon as you can. This allows you to feel free from worry and stress by getting things out of the way as soon as possible. You also allow yourself more free time to enjoy the things you love.

  Let go and move on

We have all been hurt one time or another by someone we loved, or we thought we loved. Carrying negative feelings into future relationships will only prove to be disastrous. No two people are the same, so it’s unfair to hold a future partner to a standard set by an ex. Try to begin each new relationship with a clean slate.\

 Negativity

What you put out into the universe will come back to you, so change the way you think, immediately. Stop thinking of life as a glass half empty, but rather, half full. You have so much to be grateful for, if only you took a moment to appreciate it. Anything is possible in the mind of a positive thinker.

Judgmental Thoughts

Why do people feel the need to constantly worry about what is going on in other people’s lives? If we spent as much time worrying about our own behaviors as we do worrying about those of others, our lives would be a whole lot more meaningful. You have no idea what is going on in another person’s life, so who are you to pass judgment on the way they act

Are you ready to move on ?